Articles ~ For the submissives: on masculinity and sex
Friday, October 27th, 2006I’m just gonna go ahead and admit that there’s a particular Carly Simon song that (in sharp contrast to most of her music) doesn’t make me change the channel or drive screaming into a bridge abutment. Its called, ”All I Want is You,” and the best lyric in the song goes, ”I dont want a [...]
Articles ~ The One True Way
Monday, March 6th, 2006I’ve been reading a lot today from Alt and other sites about things or people that have a fascist bent. The idea that one’s philosophy or religion or ideas are the ONE AND TRUE WAY. And that all others are wrong or somehow flawed or lesser than.
Few things scare me. Fascism scares me. It does [...]
Articles ~ How To Tame A Free Spirit
Wednesday, February 22nd, 2006Have you met someone who’s fiercely independent, and yearn for their devotion? The key to taming a wild soul is to make him or her feel like they can be freer with you than with anybody else. Here’s how to have that free spirit eating out of your hand, willingly and happily.
Articles ~ The Center of the Universe
Monday, December 12th, 2005In a perfect world, a Dominants life would consist solely of learning and living the lifestyle, treasuring and torturing the gift that is their submissive. For most of us, unfortunately, life is not that perfect, and intrudes on what would otherwise be a fulfilling and idyllic life. When this occurs, often a return to ”center” [...]
Articles ~ Ego states: Parent-Adult-Child
Thursday, August 25th, 2005I ran across Master Tanos and lili’s site some time ago. It’s come a long way since I last visited. I will readily admit that theirs is one of the first pages that I enjoyed flipping through. I admire the type of relationship they have and I can only hope to grow as much as [...]
Articles ~ Slavespace
Friday, August 19th, 2005I’ve recently put a name to a feeling I have had, a place I’ve gone within myself. Slavespace. Simple enough to say, and a rather fitting word. I know I’ve mentioned that second plane of thought in some of my entries and I’ve seen dreamy posting something I think is similar in her journal, so [...]
Articles ~ On Being “In Service”
Thursday, September 23rd, 2004Compliments of [1]The Dominant’s View
On Being ”In Service”
by Jen {SE}
I have been asked recently, and often in the past, what I was – bottom, submissive or slave. My answer to this question is that I am a servant. For me it is quite simple, I serve my dominant, hence I am a servant. Service to [...]
Articles ~ Loving Submission Through Service
Saturday, September 4th, 2004Compliments of [1]Dark Connections:
Loving Submission Through Service
Over the time I have been on my personal journey in submissiveness, I have come to learn several things about myself as well as the BDSM community. One factor of myself is that I am very much service oriented, yet I find many in our community do not understand [...]
